Bobbi Sheahan
Author of What I Wish I'd Known about Raising a Child with Autism

 

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Praise for What I Wish I'd Known about Raising a Child with Autism

"Tears of joy for this incredible book! I absolutely loved it, it was so amazing, riveting, and informative! I found myself tearing up through much of the book because it so reminded me of what I went through. It also pained me to see how much I could have gone through and what Bobbi Sheahan and so many parents have to deal with. I had so many 'A ha,' and 'that's so true' moments through the entire book. I loved the explanations of the technical terms that we as parents are not knowledgeable about. Dr. DeOrnellas' explanations of the ASD symptoms are insightful, easy to understand, and so helpful in trying to comprehend and facilitate what to do about dealing with various symptoms. I also enjoyed her professional stories about the different problems that she has encountered with her patients. Both authors address, assess and provide strategies of the key issues associated with ASD's and why children on the spectrum behave a certain way. I also learned a lot of new terminology and information about certain topics that were light-bulb enlightenments for me. Bobbi Sheahan has a perfect balance of humor and seriousness, love and enlightenment throughout the entire book. I feel and appreciate her pain, compassion, love and determination to help her daughter be the best she can be. I love the comments from the anonymous parent contributors and especially the analogy the man said about his son, 'watching his son try to interact with friends is like watching a deaf person try to dance.' There were so many things I could talk about that just touched me so and that I could relate to. So many parents will be blessed by this book. LOVE IT!!!"
--Elizabeth Scott, author of Raindrops on Roman (Robert Reed Publishing 2009) and The Autism Manual of Skills and Drills (Robert Reed Publishing 2010)

 

"Every time I pick the book up again, I am instantly glad that I've done so, and with titles like 'Daddy's Chin,' 'This Ain't Working the Way it's Supposed to Work' and awkward questions from siblings like 'Does Grace Not Have To Do This Chore Because of Autism?'... I can't help but feel like I need to pass this book to every special needs parent I know."

--Gina, Special Happens, November 2011 [Read the full review]

 

"What I Wish I'd Known About Raising a Child with Autism: A Mom and a Psychologist Offer Heartfelt Guidance for the First Five Years should bring hope and encouragement to all who know, love, and work with children who have autism (ASD) and bring understanding and compassion to others... hopefully those standing in line with you at the checkout counters."
--Lorna D'Entremont, Kid Companions, July 2011 [Read the full review]

 

"I would recommend this book without reservation. It serves as a good book for those who are considering that their child may be autistic, or have children newly diagnosed as autistic. This book would be a good beginner book for parents who want to know about autism, and a great source for further reading on the subject."
 -- Stephen M. Donahue, M.D., March 2011  [Read the full review on
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"In 'What I Wish I'd Known about Raising a Child with Autism: A Mom and a Psychologist Offer Heartfelt Guidance for the First Five Years,' authors Bobbi Sheahan and Kathy DeOrnellas, Ph.D., give parents the skinny on what it's really like to raise a child with autism through the age of 5. Bobbi focuses on the toddler, pre-school, and kindergarten years, and gives us a warm, funny, and realistic look at this job -- and I should know! The majority of the book was good, and Dr. DeOrnellas provided input on the technical sides of therapy for the child with autism. I actually was reminded of things I needed to know, although a lot of the book had me nodding my head in all-too-familiar agreement with a lot of the stuff she went through."
-- Gina Badalaty, Mom-Blog, September 2011 [Read the full review and enter for a chance to win a copy of the book!]

 

"What I Wish I'd Known about Raising a Child with Autism is an amazing read. I found the book easily read and there were times I just couldn't put it down. It's the most honest and humorous book in regards to Autism or raising a child with Autism I have ever read."
-- Kathleen Porteus, Just the Two of Us, November 2011 [Read the full review]

 

"This is a fantastic resource! The conversational style makes it easy to read, yet it’s filled with so much practical information. Parenting children with autism comes with many challenges and unknowns. This book gives a window to view one family’s experience; with an expert’s insights woven throughout. Parents will get an idea of some of the unique challenges to parenting child with autism, as well as the reassurance that they are not alone. This book is not just for parents, either. If someone in your life has a child with autism, read this book. You will better understand and be able to support the parents and their child."
 --SueAnn Eason, mom of 2, California [Read the
full review]

 

"I read this book straight through in one day!!! It was compelling, fascinating and informative. Thank you for opening a window into the world of autism – I have a much better appreciation for the families I know with an autistic child and for the struggles and triumphs that happen every day!"
-- Anita Walker, mom to many, Texas [Read the full review]

 

"I found this book to be very compelling. Although I don't have a child with these issues, I have a friend that does. This book helped me understand what my friend's family goes through. I really appreciated Ben's commentary throughout the book. Great stuff. Well written. Great read!"
-- A. M. May [Read the full review]

 

"Great book for anyone with a new autism diagnosis (or possible diagnosis)! Also, would be invaluable for grandparents, friends, or caregivers of children living with autism. Anyone not understanding of autism cannot read this and come away without a great overall view of autism and a huge helping of empathy and hope. With autism rates rising, it is now rare to find anyone that would not benefit from this book. Reading this book is like a long conversation with your best girlfriend that has already paved the way through autism for you. Great parent-to-parent advice based up by references. It will make you feel like you are not alone and tell you what to expect like a AAA road map. Everyone's situation is unique and every parent does the best they can – this book will inspire you to continue to seek the best route for your family – and, know you will make it. Beautifully written with real life, warts and all, accountings of truly living as a family with autism. Don't feel alone with autism – get this book, read it, and refer back to it when you need a girlfriend that understands what you are dealing with and knows what they are talking about."
-- RNMom [Read the full review]

 

"I've just finished reading this emotionally honest, humorous and poignant book! WOW!!! Although I couldn't imagine the roller coaster of emotions of Bobbi and Ben's daily lives they make it sound so easy. They have faced this challenge of raising their daughter with faith, love, humor, and a determination to see her succeed. Whether you know anyone that has a child with autism or just need to broaden your horizon and step out of your comfort zone this is a must read book! Hopefully you will have gained a sense of empathy for parents of autistic children. Excellent!"
-- Grace [Read the full review]

 

"Boxes of these books should be available in the offices of pediatricians, pediatric neurologists, developmental pediatric physicians, family counselors and any other places that couples will walk into as confused, hopeful, concerned parents and leave with the life they thought they were living falling to pieces around them. What you hear in those offices is often a dire prognosis such as the information shared with my husband and me while our 2-year-old slept in my lap – mental retardation, may reach function level of an 8 year old, etc. That was my first rodeo and I had no questions because the doctors had already foretold my little boy's future. I couldn't even stop crying. That is the moment someone should have put this book in my hands and told me to have my cry but then move on and live my new life. This is the most honest and comforting book I have read about accepting the special needs diagnosis and running with it! We know our child better than any doctor can and it takes courage to act on that realization. This remarkable book from a mom who has been there is pitch perfect advice on how to navigate in this very foreign land that none of us expected to inhabit."
-- Possummom [Read the full review]

 

"I'm very pleased with this book. "True to Life" for any family with an autistic child, no matter where your child is on the spectrum. Bobbi also used real comments from real families about some of the trials and tribulations a family faces. I'm using this book to give to anyone that my son spends much time with as a way to give them a glimpse into our daily life without having to go into all of our family's details. This book is a great insight for anyone that will be spending time with any child on the autism spectrum. Thank you so much Bobbi for having the courage to write this book."
-- Leta G. Bowker [Read the full review]

 

"This book is wonderful for those parents who've just found out their young child has autism, or for friends, grandparents, etc., of autistic children. It's a huge dose of reality, heavily-laced with humor, for what to expect, and how you can help your child become their absolute best. I really appreciate the author opening up her families' lives in order to help us see what life with a special-needs child is like. Also, the information from Dr. DeOrnellas was very easy to understand and helped to explain the myriad of different types of Autism. I loved this book!"
-- St. Monica's Helper [Read the full review]

 

"I learned so much about autism -- and yet it didn't feel like a chore. An easy, entertaining and very funny (at times) read, yet insightful and educational throughout. Highly recommended."
-- Momandmore [Read the full review]

 

"I stumbled onto this unique book while browsing through the 'notes from alumni' section of the Oral Roberts University alumni magazine. Bobbi Sheahan, the main author, is an ORU graduate who is currently raising her 6 year old autistic daughter. The book is filled with real life experiences thus far in the family's life. Additional comments from other family members are included with the stories. The thing that really sets this book apart are the comments made by Kathy DeOrnellas, Ph.D., the co-author, who is the child's beloved psychologist. Her comments are set apart in gray shaded type and are very enlightening. The reader can gain professional insight into the behavior that is being described in each family experience. What I found most amazing was the amount of love and patience that is present in the pages. This book would be a real encouragement to anyone currently raising or living with an autistic child. The author mentions the possibility of a future book as things progress in her daughter's development. I will look forward to reading more heartfelt guidance from someone who is truly 'in the trenches'."
-- MB [Read the full review]

 

"I can't put this book down in spite of my busy soccer mom schedule. I read it while I sit in carpool and I continue reading it while I sit at the doctor's office waiting. The author wrote an intelligent and witty view of embracing our autistic child."
-- Angela Powell [Read the full review]

 

"I recommend this book for any parent with a child on the spectrum. It's really comforting to read a book from someone who is a specialist in more ways than one. My son was diagnosed over two years ago at age two, and there is still so much that I don't know or understand about autism. This book gives parents insight on what to expect and what to do. My husband and I giggled about the story when Grace ate the roses. =o) My son ate my roses also. This is a great read for Moms and Dads with children on the spectrum. There is hope!"
--2bornot2b4dj [Read the full review]

 

"I found this book to be full of good insight sprinkled with a lot of good humor. I would recommend this to anyone just starting out on the autism journey."
-- Marie Echelmeyer [Read the full review]

 

"Bobbi Sheahan's newest book, What I Wish I'd Known about Raising a Child with Autism, is one of the best and most poignant stories I have read to date. Her love and her 'Grace' show through in each page she writes. With the help of Bobbi and Dr. D, I, as a teacher of special education/special needs, have not only learned so much more than I expected but came away with a better and different understanding of what families deal with on a daily basis. I am so much more prepared to teach these angels because of this understanding. The statement 'when you have met one child with autism, you've met one child with autism' is so true. Bobbi's humor (although she may not see it as clearly as I do) combined with Dr. D's vast knowledge of kids on the autism spectrum is what sets this book apart from others in the field. Once I started reading Bobbi's story, I could not put it down. I read it in less than twenty-four hours. It is amazingly moving in parts. I laughed until I cried just picturing the dilemmas presented in the book. Her unique writing style will take your breath away and keep you interested through all its 250 pages. It is entertaining while bringing home all the points necessary for understanding daily life with a small child on the spectrum. It is certainly a true read and a better one could not be found! Whether you are a parent, a caregiver or a teacher, this book is the ONE book that you must read!"
-- ALilly [Read the full review]

 

 

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